Dear Grandchildren,
Look beyond. Don’t just accept what people say … what is written … what you see. Be cautious. Things may not be as they seem.
People call me gullible. I tend to believe that people are credible until proven otherwise. Consequently, I have fallen for some outrageous stories in my 70+ years. Sometimes it has been an expensive lesson.
Social media has not helped. People today seem to only read or listen to stories consistent with their beliefs. Don’t be that person. Listen to everything and make up your own mind.
I remember at a recent baby shower two great-aunts were sitting side-by-side at the table. Fortunately, no one mentioned politics. One great aunt believes the President can do no wrong while the other believes he can do no right. Sadly, from what each post on social media, that is all that they tend to read.
Personally, I confuse people. I follow people all across the spectrum. I want to hear what others have to say. I want to take in information and make up my own mind. I have people believing that I am in their camp when I’m not. I have people believing that I oppose their point of view when I don’t.
I’m not a zealot. I’m not out to convert the world to my point of view. (The world would be a boring place if everyone believed and acted the same way.) I am, however, tolerant to other religions, political views, and beliefs.
So, listen, read, and look carefully. Gather different information. Make up your own mind.
Love,
Grandfather